May 2009:
So if there is a silver lining in my time of being unemployed, it has definitely got to be how much time I am able to spend with Amber and the kids. It seems like when I started working for Fidelity Investments moving forward, it was so competitive, there was more money to be made, so I was working alot. And it's not that I enjoy being unemployed, I have been looking for steady work since February of this year, but this economy doesn't make it easy to find a good job. It has been extremely frustrating and a bit depressing to the ego. But if there is a sure-fire way to cheer me up, it's to see my kids smiling, laughing, and having a good time. One of the things that they enjoy most is swimming. There is a pretty big indoor/outdoor pool in Bountiful, close to where Amber's grandparents live which we really like to go to.

A quick story about this picture above. You can see a barrier separating the kiddie pool where Rusty, Sienna and I are, from a lazy river that encircles the entire indoor pool. Well, right after Amber took this picture, she went to go put the camera away so that she could join us in the water. I thought Rusty was right there next to me, and it seemed like only seconds had occured when we all heard the Lifeguard's whistle going nuts and the Lifeguard jumping into that lazy river. Rusty had climbed on that barrier and jumped into the lazy river. He was pulled under the water and away from the point from where he jumped in by about 30 feet. That scared the living day-lights out of Amber and I. And after the initial embarrasment of "who is that boy's parents to let something like that happen" and Amber later commenting "and here I was a state championship swimmer and swim coach," it really hit me hard how bad it could have been. Life is so fragile and it doesn't take long for any tragedy to happen. Rusty is fine, but it was a nice little reminder to us about how precious our children are, and how much of a blessing it is to have a loving Heavenly Father watching out for our family.


That boy is gonna wear a life-jacket until he is in his 20's!!! That or until he learns how to swim.